Comments on: Spiral http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/ Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:42:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: D'Jen http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/#comment-3997 D'Jen Tue, 12 Aug 2008 07:46:32 +0000 http://somewheresomething.wordpress.com/?p=709#comment-3997 Miranda, I'll be the first to admit I have shitty taste in partners, I should stop chosing them myself and go to a match maker or something :P I so agree that female friends are meant to have your back, regardless of how stupid the situation or how wrong you might be about something, it's just their job to agree with you :) About being cool, I still totally disagree. I might blog about it because I often complain to Jac that I'm not cool enough to live up to my reputation now. Nicole, that is true. Considering I'm coming from a whole other country I'd like to think they wouldn't waste my time unless they were pretty keen. Pause and reflect is the story of my life. All I ever do is pause and reflect and so far it's gotten me no where, but being proactive has made me heartbroken. I can't seem to win?? Sushi, I know it's normal to have shitty days, but I just hate them because it's never just been one shitty day, it always turned into weeks/months of being sad. It's only now with the brain candy that I can actually bounce back from one bad day, so I suppose it's just something to get used to. "Wings hurt when they first start to grow" that's so perfect! That's exactly it! Thank you :) xxx Beckie, I know that people don't necessarily mind reading the bad stuff but it feels like I am always whining about something and I don't want to be one of those train wreck bloggers. I still don't think Tex was being intentionally mean or hurtful, I just can't believe her intentions would be anything other than good. It's entirely possible I give other people far more credit than they deserve, but I just don't want to believe she might not be lovely. Does that even make sense?? Miranda, I’ll be the first to admit I have shitty taste in partners, I should stop chosing them myself and go to a match maker or something :P

I so agree that female friends are meant to have your back, regardless of how stupid the situation or how wrong you might be about something, it’s just their job to agree with you :)

About being cool, I still totally disagree. I might blog about it because I often complain to Jac that I’m not cool enough to live up to my reputation now.

Nicole, that is true. Considering I’m coming from a whole other country I’d like to think they wouldn’t waste my time unless they were pretty keen.

Pause and reflect is the story of my life. All I ever do is pause and reflect and so far it’s gotten me no where, but being proactive has made me heartbroken. I can’t seem to win??

Sushi, I know it’s normal to have shitty days, but I just hate them because it’s never just been one shitty day, it always turned into weeks/months of being sad. It’s only now with the brain candy that I can actually bounce back from one bad day, so I suppose it’s just something to get used to.

“Wings hurt when they first start to grow” that’s so perfect! That’s exactly it! Thank you :) xxx

Beckie, I know that people don’t necessarily mind reading the bad stuff but it feels like I am always whining about something and I don’t want to be one of those train wreck bloggers.

I still don’t think Tex was being intentionally mean or hurtful, I just can’t believe her intentions would be anything other than good. It’s entirely possible I give other people far more credit than they deserve, but I just don’t want to believe she might not be lovely. Does that even make sense??

]]> By: Beckie http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/#comment-3996 Beckie Tue, 12 Aug 2008 06:28:58 +0000 http://somewheresomething.wordpress.com/?p=709#comment-3996 I think Miranda is right. Candy coloured girl, beautiful asian babies.. I don't come here to read you when you are only 'up'. I read you for all the dark and light that make a balanced and interesting you. For therecord, I think Miranda is also right in regards to Tex. She is in a relationship and askingthose kind of questions? You answered perfectly in my opinion. Sounds as though she is the one being silly, not you and yes, I think she is leading you on (from what you've told us). I think Miranda is right. Candy coloured girl, beautiful asian babies..

I don’t come here to read you when you are only ‘up’. I read you for all the dark and light that make a balanced and interesting you.

For therecord, I think Miranda is also right in regards to Tex. She is in a relationship and askingthose kind of questions? You answered perfectly in my opinion. Sounds as though she is the one being silly, not you and yes, I think she is leading you on (from what you’ve told us).

]]> By: sushizume http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/#comment-3995 sushizume Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:26:29 +0000 http://somewheresomething.wordpress.com/?p=709#comment-3995 Totally fine to have poo days! Allow yourself, you need em. Can't be cheery and chipper all the time now can we (or can we??) The cool thing is you are admitting what you want and reaching out for it. Many people spend their lives unaware of what they want, oblivious how to get it or unrealistic about the possible outcomes. Change is not always easy, but it is VERY bloody exciting! If it helps out any...I too would love to crawl into bed today and cry - no particular reason just one of those days, too much to do! So I have no time for a cry or bed for that matter!! Chin up...off to hoop class. (Tears ducks dried up long ago anyway...aaaahhhh) Grab your hoop girl, get into the spin and forget about it all! You have taken the red bull by the horns and it is giving you wings. Wings hurt when they first start to grow! OUCH love to ya d xx Totally fine to have poo days! Allow yourself, you need em. Can’t be cheery and chipper all the time now can we (or can we??)

The cool thing is you are admitting what you want and reaching out for it. Many people spend their lives unaware of what they want, oblivious how to get it or unrealistic about the possible outcomes.

Change is not always easy, but it is VERY bloody exciting!

If it helps out any…I too would love to crawl into bed today and cry – no particular reason just one of those days, too much to do! So I have no time for a cry or bed for that matter!! Chin up…off to hoop class. (Tears ducks dried up long ago anyway…aaaahhhh)

Grab your hoop girl, get into the spin and forget about it all! You have taken the red bull by the horns and it is giving you wings. Wings hurt when they first start to grow! OUCH

love to ya
d
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]]> By: Nicole http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/#comment-3993 Nicole Mon, 11 Aug 2008 13:06:31 +0000 http://somewheresomething.wordpress.com/?p=709#comment-3993 you will be fine and they do want to employ you! Employers don't waste their time interviewing people that they don't think will be interesting to talk to and that they may have a spot for, trust me! On the love life front maybe you are in the "crush" stage because the acknowledging the lady love is new...take a step back and breath and let it come to you rather than being keen on the idea that you can do it...a pause and reflect is often the time that new thing comes unasked... have fun :-) you will be fine and they do want to employ you! Employers don’t waste their time interviewing people that they don’t think will be interesting to talk to and that they may have a spot for, trust me!

On the love life front maybe you are in the “crush” stage because the acknowledging the lady love is new…take a step back and breath and let it come to you rather than being keen on the idea that you can do it…a pause and reflect is often the time that new thing comes unasked…

have fun :-)

]]> By: Miranda http://somewhere-something.com/2008/08/11/spiral/#comment-3992 Miranda Mon, 11 Aug 2008 11:31:50 +0000 http://somewheresomething.wordpress.com/?p=709#comment-3992 Awwww, JEN! You are so much cooler than you make yourself sound, seriously. I think it is so honourable of you to reply to Tex the way that you did, and she sounds like a douchebag for stringing you along, that sort of thing isn't cool whether you are male, female, or hermaphrodite. You seem to fall for girls that are dicks - no offence! But for Wifey to say that to you, does she not understand that the role of female friendship, regardless of your sexual orientation, is to completely build up your friends' hopes, and to bash the shit out of anything that they think is uncool? (like, for example, the fact that their significant other never does the dishes 'What a dick! Who even does that! What a muppet' etc) I think maybe you will meet a crazy cool Japanese girl with candy-coloured hair and fall in love and have little Asian babies. Awwww, JEN! You are so much cooler than you make yourself sound, seriously. I think it is so honourable of you to reply to Tex the way that you did, and she sounds like a douchebag for stringing you along, that sort of thing isn’t cool whether you are male, female, or hermaphrodite. You seem to fall for girls that are dicks – no offence! But for Wifey to say that to you, does she not understand that the role of female friendship, regardless of your sexual orientation, is to completely build up your friends’ hopes, and to bash the shit out of anything that they think is uncool? (like, for example, the fact that their significant other never does the dishes ‘What a dick! Who even does that! What a muppet’ etc)

I think maybe you will meet a crazy cool Japanese girl with candy-coloured hair and fall in love and have little Asian babies.

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